Underhill's Swing and Shag Dance Collective

The Morning After the Night Before You know the feeling. You wake up in the morning after an incredible night of social dancing—maybe it was fast Lindy Hop, high-energy Salsa, or Carolina Shag. Your mind is still buzzing with the music and the amazing connections you had on the floor. Then, you try to get out of bed. Ouch. Your calves are screaming, your quads feel like concrete, and walking down the stairs seems like an impossible task. You aren’t injured, but you are profoundly sore. There is an old gym cliché that says, "Soreness is weakness leaving the body." It sounds tough, but it’s biologically wrong. As dancers, we need a better mantra. A more accurate way to look at that morning-after hobble is this: Soreness is inflammation gathering to repair your body. Here is the science of why fast dancing beats you up, and why that pain is actually proof of progress. It’s Not the Speed, It’s the Stops Why does a night of dancing often hurt more than a steady 5-mile run? It come...

We’ve all heard the old adage: "Dance like nobody's watching." It’s a nice sentiment. It encourages us to let go of our inhibitions and find freedom in movement. But recently, after a night out on the floor with my wife, I realized that this saying misses a crucial part of the social dance experience. The truth is: People are watching. But here is the secret: They generally aren’t looking at your feet. They aren’t counting your beats. They aren’t grading your anchor step. They are watching your face. They are watching your connection. They are watching to see if you are having fun . The Compliment That Changed My Perspective Recently, my wife and I were out dancing, enjoying the music and each other's company. Throughout the night, several people approached us. We expected the usual questions about where we teach or how long we’ve been dancing. Instead, the most common comment was: "You two look like you are happy and very much enjoy what you do!" It wasn’t ...

Friends and fellow dancers, For a couple years on this blog, we've explored the joy of swing and shag dance. We've focused on the steps, the music, the history, and the wonderful community we're building together. We've worked on the "how" of dancing. But I've always been fascinated by something deeper. I'm endlessly curious about the "why." Why does partner dance feel so magical? Why does it forge such a powerful, non-verbal bond between two people? I believe that what we learn on the dance floor—trust, non-verbal communication, being present, and moving as one—are the exact same skills that build incredible, resilient, and deeply connected romantic relationships. This topic is bigger and more personal than a single blog post. It deserves its own dedicated space to explore. That's why I am so excited to announce a new, separate project: The Kinetic Connection . This will be my new Substack newsletter, and it has a specific mission: to...

For too long, society has promoted the belief that aging equates to a steady deterioration of physical and mental capabilities—what I like to call the "long slow route" of aging . This negative stereotype can feel like a self-fulfilling prophecy, often leading us to believe we are less capable as we get older. But what if this pervasive idea of inevitable decline is fundamentally wrong? The key to unlocking renewed vitality and proving this old idea incorrect lies in the exhilarating, complex, and joyful activity of dancing . Dance is not merely a hobby; it’s a powerhouse activity that strategically works your mind, body, and spirit, paving the way for a vibrant new beginning at any age. Laughter lines are a roadmap of a life well-lived, and a beautiful testament to a friendship that's still dancing strong. Step Into Strength: Guarding Against Falls and Frailty Dance directly counters the physical limitations associated with the "long slow route of aging." It’s ...