Dreaming of Swing and Carolina Shag in Our Community: Join the Vision!

Hey everyone,

Roger & Denise Underhill here, and we wanted to share something we've been dreaming about: bringing the joy of swing and Carolina Shag dancing back into the heart of our community. Like many of you, we miss the days when partner dancing filled our parks, bars, and community centers with laughter and rhythm.

Although there are dance studios, dedicated clubs, competitions, and dance event weekends that keep the dancing spirit alive, the spontaneous enjoyment of social partner dancing seems to have disappeared from the public eye. However, whenever we partner dance in public, we see that spark of interest and desire to learn and connect from people who approach us and ask, "Where can we learn to do that?" This is what has driven our vision of establishing the Underhill's Swing and Shag Dance Collective.

A Vision for the Future:

We envision a community where swing, Carolina Shag, and other partner dances are a regular part of our social scene, where we can gather and dance together in public spaces, creating moments of pure joy. To make this happen, we've been thinking about:

• Building a community of passionate instructors: A network of teachers who love to share their knowledge.

• Empowering Dance Ambassadors: People who can bring the dance to the people, wherever they are.

• Creating a resource hub: A website (swingandshagdancecollective.com) with information on instructors, events, and learning materials.

• Organizing public dance opportunities: Finding and creating venues for social dancing.

Please Note: These are currently plans and dreams. This collective is not yet fully formed, and these resources are not yet fully available. But we wanted to share this vision with you and see if others share the same passion.

Join the Dream!

If you're a dancer, instructor, or simply someone who loves the idea of bringing swing, Carolina Shag, and any other partnered dance back to our community, we'd love to hear from you. Let's connect and see if we can make this dream a reality.

Here's how you can get involved in the early stages:

• Share your thoughts: Let us know what you think of this vision.

• Connect with me: Reach out if you're interested in helping to build this collective.

• Spread the word: Tell your friends and family about this idea.

Let's Build This Together!

We truly believe that partner dancing has the power to bring people together and create something special. While these are just plans right now, with your help, we can turn them into a reality.

Visit swingandshagdancecollective.com to learn more about the idea, and feel free to reach out to me at w.roger.underhill@gmail.com.

Let's start building this community together!

Whose Dance Is It Anyway? The Lead, the Follow, and the Magic of Partnership

The Misunderstood "Push": A Lesson in Dance Language

The room buzzed with energy, a mix of nervous laughter and determined footwork. I have noticed many beginner couples with the same frustration when I work with them one-on-one. I hear "He keeps pushing me," or "And when I push her, she just stands there!"

A familiar wave of realization washed over me. This wasn't just a physical misunderstanding; it was a linguistic one. The word "push," so common in everyday language, has no place in the vocabulary of partnered dance. It conjures images of force, of resistance, of a battle rather than a graceful exchange.

"Let's talk about that word 'push'," I interjected. "In dance, we don't push. We suggest. We indicate. We lead." I demonstrated, placing my hand gently on my partner's back, a feather-light touch guiding her into the turn. "It's a conversation, not a command. You're not forcing your partner; you're inviting them to move with you."

The lead will usually go quiet, a sense of understanding settling in. "Think of it like this," I continued. "Imagine you're guiding someone through a crowded room. You wouldn't shove them; you'd gently place your hand on their arm and direct them around obstacles. In dance, it's the same principle, just with more artistry."

That little linguistic shift, from "push" to "suggest," transformed the atmosphere. Suddenly, the tension eased, and the students began to explore the subtle nuances of leading and following. They discovered that true connection wasn't about force, but about a delicate balance of intention and responsiveness. And it was that moment that reminded me, and I hope will remind you, that partnered dancing is a conversation, not a conquest. And as we explore in the blog post above, whose dance is it anyways? It's ours.

The Lead, the Follow, and the Magic of Partnership

Partnered dancing: it's a beautiful, intricate conversation played out with bodies, not words. But within this dialogue, the question often arises: whose dance is it, really? Is it the lead, dictating the moves? Or the follow, adding their own flair? Let's unpack this fascinating dynamic.

The Traditional View: The Lead's Domain

Traditionally, the lead holds the reins. They initiate the steps, guide the direction, and set the overall tone. Think of it as the choreographer in real-time, using subtle cues and physical connection to communicate their intentions. This structure provides a framework, a roadmap for the dance to unfold.

For many beginners, this concept is crucial. It provides a clear structure and a sense of security. The lead learns to communicate with confidence, while the follow learns to interpret those signals with precision.

Beyond Control: The Follow's Essential Contribution

However, to see the follow as merely a passive recipient is a grave misunderstanding. A skilled follow is an active participant, a vital component of the dance's magic. They interpret the lead's signals, adding their own style, musicality, and expression.

Imagine a jazz improvisation: the lead provides the melody, but the follow adds the harmonies and embellishments, creating a richer, more nuanced experience. They can anticipate, respond, and even subtly influence the direction of the dance.

A truly great follow elevates the lead, making them look and feel better. They bring life and vibrancy to the dance, transforming it from a set of steps into a living, breathing expression of connection.

The Dance as a Dialogue: A Shared Creation

Ultimately, the best partnered dances are a dialogue, a give-and-take, a true partnership. It's not about control, but about collaboration. The lead initiates, the follow responds, and together, they create something greater than the sum of their parts.

Think of it as a conversation between two musicians. One proposes a musical phrase, and the other responds with a counter-melody, creating a beautiful harmony. This dynamic exchange is the heart of partnered dancing.

Modern Interpretations: Blurring the Lines

In contemporary dance styles, the traditional roles of lead and follow are often blurred. There's a growing emphasis on fluidity, equality, and shared creativity. Some dances even feature equal roles, where there's no defined lead or follow.

This shift reflects a broader cultural trend towards greater equality and collaboration. It acknowledges that both partners bring unique skills and perspectives to the dance floor.

The Takeaway: It's Our Dance

So, whose dance is it anyway? The answer is: it's ours. It's a shared creation, a testament to the power of connection and collaboration. Whether you're a lead or a follow, remember that you're both essential to the magic of partnered dancing.

Embrace the dialogue, celebrate the partnership, and enjoy the beautiful conversation that unfolds on the dance floor. Because ultimately, the best dances are the ones we create together.