Underhill's Swing and Shag Dance Collective

Y ou’ve finished the 6-week beginner series. You know your Rock Step from your Triple Step. You can count to six. But then, you walk into a social dance venue—perhaps our local Richmond Shag Club or one of our Collective events—and you freeze. The lights are dim, the music isn't the same track we used in class, and the floor looks like a chaotic, swirling puzzle. You know the steps , but you don't feel like a dancer . This is the "Gap." It is the terrifying space between Classroom Performance (executing a move when a teacher counts it out) and Social Dancing (navigating a crowded floor with a partner in real-time). We built our new 6-week course, "The Kinetic Connection Bridge," to close that gap. We are moving beyond the mechanics of "where do I put my foot?" to the deeper substance of the Carolina Shag and Swing legacy: the art of non-verbal conversation. It’s Not About the Move; It’s About the Movement In our digital world, we are often disco...

Friends and fellow dancers, For a couple years on this blog, we've explored the joy of swing and shag dance. We've focused on the steps, the music, the history, and the wonderful community we're building together. We've worked on the "how" of dancing. But I've always been fascinated by something deeper. I'm endlessly curious about the "why." Why does partner dance feel so magical? Why does it forge such a powerful, non-verbal bond between two people? I believe that what we learn on the dance floor—trust, non-verbal communication, being present, and moving as one—are the exact same skills that build incredible, resilient, and deeply connected romantic relationships. This topic is bigger and more personal than a single blog post. It deserves its own dedicated space to explore. That's why I am so excited to announce a new, separate project: The Kinetic Connection . This will be my new Substack newsletter, and it has a specific mission: to...